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Rank: Frosh
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Location: Manitoba
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So, I'm sure I'm not the only one out there, but I am having one heck of a time figuring out this whole moving-out-of-home situation. The to-do list just goes on and on. For instance:
#1 need to find a place to live, options: residance, room in a house, studio apartement, renting with someone(s), living with a relative. There seams to be pro's and cons for all of them.
#2 need to get a job that: pays for rent, school, transporation, food, other living costs. So where do I apply? Restaurant? Clothing store? etc.
#3 need a means of transportation: Bus, my own vehicle, car pool, etc.
#4 extra things, school isn't everything when you move out, kids also still want to be involved in: sports, commitees, a gym, art classes, etc.
#5 MONEY MANAGEMENT: how in gods name do we afford all these things? A job of minimum wage just might not cut it....
I would like to hear other student opinions of what they did when they moved out, what they will be doing when they move out and/or what they would ideally want vs. what they can get!?
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Rank: Frosh
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Location: Canada
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Money-wise... OSAP, savings, loans, scholarships, bursaries, support from family members, on-campus jobs... you'll find it somehow! 
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Rank: Frosh
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Location: Hamilton
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You need to remember to stay calm and focus on what you need to get done. Don't stress yourself out. It will all turn out. Lots of places offer programs for those in dire need of money. And as for places to live, i would suggest on campus - at least for your 1st year. its a great way to meet new people and discover your campus. Also, dorms usually come with some kind of meal plan and furniture.
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Rank: Frosh
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Location: Gatineau
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Make sure you have a good support system made up of your family and friends.
It can be hard to move out somewhere new, it's important to surround yourself with good people and have support from people that matter the most.
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Rank: Frosh
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Location: vancouver island
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definatley in the same situation.
hopefully, I'm going to end up in res.
that should take some of the stress out of finding a place to live. lol
as for transportation, it all depends on the area you're moving to, and what's practical.
I'm probably going to be in vancouver, where traffic downtown sucks, and the public transit system is pretty good, so no car for me, but my friend is going to olds, alberta, so she's deff. going to be driving.
exta stuff, just about any school is going to have a crapload of extra curricular type things to do, sports teams, student societies, events, and stuff to do that wont cost much, cause everybody's kinda in the same boat.
money/jobs, it all depends... doing something you can at least tolerate is a big thing though. If you hate your job, it's just going to add extra stress to your life. do you have a job now? you should be able to find something similar no matter where you go...
wow... that ended up being a lot longer than I had intended. haha.
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Rank: Frosh
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Location: Ottawa, ON
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Staying with a relative is always the cheapest option. Probably the best if you don't have alot of scholarships or money aside for Uni/College. Once you get a job and have money aside maybe you can consider sharing an appartment or residence! Just work hard, get a good paying job with benefits if you can (dental, health, life insurance...) or even just discounts; it helps a whole lot... I work at Rogers and I get 50% off all my products; phone, cable, internet...!
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The easiest thing you can do to help yourself out with the moving-out situation is to just be calm. Don't stress or worry too much about it. Just know that it needs to be done, and then go with the flow. Talk to relatives who've already been through this, and do research on the internet. I'm in the same boat as you, as are a lot of other people, and if I can do it - anyone can. =)
If you're going into your first year it's usually better to live in res., I've heard. That way you don't have to worry about finding an apartment, you meet new people more easily and it helps with the transition if there's lots of stuff going on around to distract you.
As for money, if you have a job just don't spend so much or any excess money. Look into scholarships (even if you don't meet all the requirements apply anyway, it's better to have had the chance), bursaries, and student loans.
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Location: Oshawa
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Money wise, if you want to save up, residence is one of the cheapest way to go. Usually they include all utilities, so you dont have to pay for internet, cable, heating,... which is where renting out an apartment or a room in a house might catch quite a bit of $$.. and some schools have optional meal plans too.. might not be the best food in the world but its cheap, quick and convineant if you have late classes.
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Bring the items that will make you feel most at home!! Comfort is key!
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Location: Kamloops
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Talking with friends who have lived in res, I have gotten mixed reviews. Some loved it because of the social networking, and others hated "living in a box", and not being able to escape noise. If you're a social person, but you know when you need to buckle down and work, res might be a good option for you. On the other hand, I have been living with a room mate in an apartment, close to campus for the past two years, and I wouldn't have it any other way. Having a space that is ours is very comforting. We go 50/50 on everything, and both have part time jobs as servers (this is a great way to pay for your living expenses....you can bank on your hourly wages to pay the bills, and if you work in a busy establishment tips make for perfect spending money). Also, living in an apartment can be pretty cheap, just be conscious of your utilities and the bills are reasonable. If you live close to your university you can skip getting internet and that is one less bill you have to worry about as well, which can be nice.
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Rank: Frosh
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Location: Halifac Nova Scotia
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what do people rather a single or a double room? it be wierd sharing a room with a stranger. and suck if you didnt get along with them
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Rank: Frosh
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Location: Toronto
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i would recommend rez for the first year, its alittle more pricy, but u can work in the rez as a desk staff or on campus. but u meet lots of people. and roommates for the next 3 years.
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Berrigan : single is ideal if ur not comfortable with living with sum1 else obviously but sharing can be pretty fun too. and most residences now they let you have "preferred rommies" and such so that you can end up sharing with sum1 you know.
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Rank: Frosh
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Location: St. Catharines
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First year can be very tough, especially on the finances. Make sure you make yourself a budget, look it over with your family and don't be buying things you really dont need. When your away at school you really have to decide what is a 'want' and what is a 'need'. From experience, I did not budget well and I spent the money I had foolishly so be carefull and stick to your budget!!
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Rank: Frosh
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With all of the changes happening at once it is tough but everyone goes through it and most people manage through it. Everything depends on the type of person you are; what job you will get does, where you will live for first year, if you join clubs etc. The most important things whatever you do is establish some friendships they will be your support and help you rid yourself of stress in high stress times, budget, and apply for scholarships.
The best thing to do for yourself is to do what is right for you and not what everyone thinks is right for you.
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