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Rank: Frosh
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Location: Calgary
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How would you deal with a relationship where know this person, who you think you like them, at the same time dislike many things about them and like to joke with your friends about their habits? Would that mean that you do like this person? or that it's just puppy love?
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Rank: Frosh
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Location: New Brunswick
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For starters.. all relationships start out as puppy love.. the cute flirting and such.. But.. about what you're wondering... how long have you known this person for? Chances are that if they're "odd" habits that you like to joke about with ur friends simply make you laugh.. and not embarass you.. then its possible that you do have feelings for this person. However.. you'll never be able to make anything of the feelings if you don't put urself out there and try.
"It is wise to direct your angers toward problems; not people- your energies toward reasons; not excuses"
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Rank: Frosh
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Joined: 3/7/2008
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Location: New Brunswick
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If i had more details I'd be able to offer more advice lol
"It is wise to direct your angers toward problems; not people- your energies toward reasons; not excuses"
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Rank: Frosh
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Location: B........
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i rather not be in a relationship because you can't do the same things as if you were single...you get into fights that are just stupid...when your single you can do anything at any time and can't get in trouble by anyone....if your in a relationship you basically have to get there permission before u can go and if you come late they get pissed off ....being single is sooo much fun!!! --------------
every relationship is different in there own way
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Rank: Frosh
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Location: Ontario
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your the only person who can answer if you truely like this person or not, although if you got into a relationship with them would you still make fun of them how you do now? if so i think you should REALLY think about wether this is jsut a "fling", u have the hots for the person, or if u actually want a relationship...
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Rank: Frosh
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Joined: 3/8/2008
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Location: Calgary
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ya... only you can answer this. How long have you known each other? try spending more time with this person to see if these habbits actually bother you or you just think they're funny or cute. If they really bother you and affect you negatively then you probably don't actually like him too much
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Rank: Frosh
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Joined: 3/8/2008
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Location: Lethbridge
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Everyone has habits or faults that annoy you...that doesn't mean they are a bad person but it may mean the two of you aren't that compatible. However, speaking from experience, it is completely possible to like someone that has habits that you may or may not like and as petty as it is, we all complain to our friends or tease others about their annoying habits with our friends...it's an unfortunate part of human social behaviour. So I suggest that you spend more time with this individual and really get to know them before deciding to persue them...and even then people's behaviour can change from what you initially thought. A suggestion I have is to try making a list of this person's positive and negative qualities and be honest about them. Then looking at the negative qualities, make sure the qualities they have are qualities that you can tolerate...For example, I could never date a smoker but I could handle dating someone who is a bit proud...so i recommend you think about the things you can tolerate and the things that are deal breakers.
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Rank: Frosh
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Joined: 3/16/2008
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Location: mississauga
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Either way it isn't love yet. If you find traits to tease them .. you must have somehow thought of them more than usual. Like someone said , get to know them and give it a go.
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